Showing posts with label Plans for my life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Plans for my life. Show all posts

Friday, September 28, 2018

More Incredible Results from the Life Planning Process

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At Lead Self Lead Otherswe have created an incredible six-month, five-phase Life Planning process designed to deliver the results you’re looking for in your life.  It kicks off November 3 with an intensive one-day workshop at the beautiful Courtyard by Marriott in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma.  If you think this might be for you, fill out this quick online application. It will help us assess your readiness for the Life Planning process and does not cost you anything, nor does it obligate you to anything at all. You can also see a great overview of the six-month process right here.  

You were made to do great things in this life.  We can help you get from where you are to where you want to be.

Download a 1-page overview to review or share right here!

Friday, January 13, 2017

LifePlanning is for you!

The LifePlanning process is coming back this Fall and will be better than ever.  The details are still coming together, but the one-day workshop that kicks off the 6-month process is tentatively set for October 13, 2018, at the Courtyard Marriot in downtown Tulsa. 



Who is it for?  

This is for you if you are dealing with . . .
  • A major life transition
  • A move from success to significance
  • Yearning to know what God has prepared you for next
  • Burn-out and losing passion for your work
  • A desire to find a healthy life/work balance
  • Increased fulfillment and meaning in life
  • Alignment with who you are and what you do
  • True success in your most important life and work priorities

Friday, May 20, 2016

You already know all this . . . but you'd be a fool not to look again.

The Compound Effect is a great little book written by Darren Hardy.  It's an easy, quick read.  I read it in a week and that's just about a record for me.  So, you fast readers (or people without kids - haha) could probably read it in a day or two.

I'm a little torn on this one.  Not because I don't think it's good.  It's fantastic.  By far, the best book I've read in years.  My hesitation is not because the book lacks good content, but because the content is so incredibly simple.  Just yesterday, I texted 5 friends, who are great leaders, and recommended they read it.  Part of me felt like I was doing them a huge favor, another part felt somewhat embarrassed.  It's like I almost think they will read it and then call me up and say, "Well, I already knew all that."  But as the book's introduction states, "New or more information is not what you need - a new plan of action is.  It's time to create new behaviors and habits that are oriented away from sabatoge and toward success. It's that simple."

So, I'm holding onto this little book that's absolutely life-changing.  And believe me, I realize how overused that phrase is and I use it sparingly.  But this is a true example of life-changing . . . if you decide to engage your mind and actions. 

Here's the simple truth.  You are the sum total of every single decision you make.  I'm talking hundreds a day - most of them unconscious.  But that's one of the big problems.  You're living your life on auto-pilot when you should have your hands on the stick.  Each daily decision seems small - too small to matter, but each one does matter.  We can easily fool ourselves into believing "just one donut won't kill me" or "I can miss one workout and be fine" or "I can skip having that one more tough conversation at work that I really need to have."  They're all true statements.  That is, they are true if the "one" part is true.  But it's not.  If you make these statements and believe them daily, the truth becomes a lie and you are being sabatoged by the compound effect.  You see, the compound effect is like a law of nature.  It's always in effect. You can't choose to turn it on or turn it off.  You can only choose to leverage it for success or failure.  Tony Robbins said it like this, "Your decisions shape your destiny.  You future is what you make of it.  Little, everyday decisions will either take you to the life you desire or to disaster by default."

It all boils down to success.  Not just financial or business success, but success in whatever is important to you.  I actually hate that the subtitle of the book says, "jumpstart your income" because it makes it look like it's one of those "do this and get rich overnight" books, which I despise. Truthfully, it's more like a "do this and get rich over a lifetime" book. And when I say "rich", I mean in every sense of the word, not just financially.  Besides the simple principle-based writing in this book, Hardy gives tons of practical advice on how to translate the ideas into action.  It's also packed with worksheets you can complete to get yourself on track with many things you've probably been on auto-pilot with.

The bottom line is that I belive this is not only a great read, but a very important one, for anyone who is looking to do more than just exist and be taken here and there by life.  I hope you'll take that step.  If you do read this, please come back here and share your take aways with me.  I would love to hear your success stories!  Enjoy.

Friday, February 19, 2016

God Does Not Have A Plan For Your Life

"Boo.  Hiss", say all the Christians.  But, Jason, I thought you were a Christian.  I thought you would certainly believe that God has a plan for my life.  You write this blog.  You offer coaching to other leaders.  You lead people at your church. You're writing a book on leadership.  Isn't all that so people can find that perfect plan God has laid out for them since the beginning of time?

Nope.  Not really.  Well, it might be more precise to say not exactly.  I do write this blog and do all those other things so you can find ways to lead yourself.  And one of my deepest desires is that you would lead yourself toward God and His plans.  But, let me be clear.  I do not believe God has a plan for your life.  

However, I do believe He has a plan for the world and sure would like you to be a part of that plan.  Not only that, He wants you to use the specific gifts He's given you to make the greatest contribution you can make to His Kingdom!  Here's why I dislike the "God has a great big plan for your life" speak.  Quite simply, it turns the conversation selfish in a hurry.  If we look at our lives as an opportunity to walk out God's big plan for us, it's about us.  But, the longer I live, the more I realize it's not about us. It's about Him. And if that offends you, I'm glad.  If the idea that life is much more about God than you is offensive, then you do not understand your place in this world.  


But what about Jeremiah 29:11? 
"For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you,
not harm you, plans to give you a hope and future."


It's the classic verse Youth Pastors and Lead Pastors alike use to whip their crowds into a frenzy of amens.  But do you know what that verse tells me?  It tells me God loves you and wants you to have a prosperous future. Does it really say anything about a specific plan for my life or yours? No.  On the other hand, the entire New Testament has plenty to say about God's plan.  There is an entire world among us who is separated from God and can only be reunited through a relationship with Jesus.  The real question we ought to be asking is, "How has God wired me so that I can make a difference in these people's lives?"  You see the difference?  God has a plan for you.  Selfish.  God has a plan for the world and you have been given gifts to be a part of His plan.  Selfless.  

Obviously, I've just scratched the surface of a much deeper discussion, but I'd love to know what you think about this idea. Leave a comment below and we can talk about it.